I constantly think of having with other women.?

hmmm...well if ur own WIFE won't talk about ur relationship..u need relationship counseling ASAP or that marriage will go DOWN THE DRAIN..its very selfish of her..tell her u have needs n shes not giving it to u (as harsh as it may sound..the truth surpes the lie). if she refuses to talk..im sorry, but maybe you guys need a brief split..if u find u enjoy the "single" life as opposed to being with her...then the big D word should spill. sometimes u have to think about urself and ur love for urself than the love u have for others..especially if its for ur wellbeing